History of oral sex, as old as human history itself. Begins when Cleopatra did the 100 men of the Roman officers in just one night. This happened around the year 30-69 BCE. Oral sex is still a limited period for men only (fellatio=fondle man). For that period was not used to clean a woman’s genitals with water. But over time, men doing oral sex on a woman (cunnilingus).
Oral sex or sex sexualoralisme or style “karaokean” consists of a combination of two words that is sexual and oralisme. The word means sexual lust or passion channeled through sexual intercourse or intercourse which in Arabic is called Jima. While the word means oralisme mouth. In Arabic called al-lisan (plural ‘from alsinatun wa alsunun), which means all things by using his mouth. In terminological means sexualoralisme means getting sexual satisfaction by using the mouth, lips or tongue to stimulate the genitals couples.
Oral sex has always been excellent for this question. Is taboo or not. Did you know that in Islam sex before, we are encouraged to do foreplay (mula’abah) ? It’s recommended that sexual relationships do not resemble the sexual relationship conducted by the animals. Without heating. So there is no party is expected to hurt. And so the two sides are expected to be able to enjoy it. One form of foreplay in the knowledge of modern SEXUALITAS had oral sex or who sexualorisme also known as 69 positions.
Muslims still think oral sex is often considered not in accordance with the guidance to sexual relationships taught by the Prophet Muhammad S.A.W with full of ethics and aesthetics of the sublime. . This is reinforced by the texts of the Qur’an and hadith that talk about sex is still zhanni (faint). Opportunities so that understanding different among the clergy. Especially considering mashlahat and mudharat terms. a, al-Muwafaqat fi Ushul al-Syari’ah , However, when viewed from the aspect of benefits, based on research Syathibi Imam (d. 790 AH) in his landmark work,al-Muwafaqat fi Ushul al-Shari’ah, that there are five basic elements in life that must be maintained that hifzh al-din (keep religion), hifzh al-nafs (soul maintenance), hifzh al-aql (reason maintenance), hifzh al-nasl (maintaining offspring) and hifzh al-mal (property maintenance). The five points are the result of Qur’an interpretation and Hadith. Based on the research of Imam al-Syathibi on the study of the behavior of oral sex in Islam and the medical view is very important to do, especially in terms of (mashlahat) and mudharat.
But despite all that, it depends on the interests, comfort, health and genitals in the mouth and the commitment of marriage between couples who are legally valid and religion to perform oral sex. Do not let one party feels intimidated!
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